It’s not uncommon for people to want to have sex with really fat people. In ancient times, being fat actually meant that you were wealthy and didn’t worry about where your next meal was coming from. This was incredibly sexy to people who were starving to death and worked themselves thin. They wanted a piece of the action and undoubtedly enjoyed the soft rolls of skin and fat on them. Today there’s still a need for some people to be fed, but a majority of people have access to fast food or comfort food options without being rich, and they’re still sexy.
Wanting to feed someone is called feederism. These people ideally want their partner (the gainer) to put on as much weight as they can. While most of the time the feeders are men and the gainers are women, that doesn’t mean it couldn’t be switched around. So for all of you men who get turned on by the idea of gaining weight, there’s still hope for you. There are some common elements with feeders and gainers no matter what the gender mash-up though.
The feeders love their partner’s body. It’s similar to a form of submission called worshiping. Everything that the feeder does is of his or her free will, and the main activity is obviously feeding the gainer. Fast food, home cooked meals, baked goods, all of them will be fetched in order to get the object of their sexual affection to gain weight. Often the feeder will be focusing on a particular part of the gainers body (the belly is a big one, along with the butt, thighs, and tits). Feeders love fondling the fat rolls while having sex, and enjoy having to dive in to get to their destination, which may not be the trim at all. All of those rolls sort of make it like titty-screwing all over the body. You just pick a roll and go to town.
Food is often a big turn on during sex, since the actual act of seeing food go into the gainer’s mouth is hot as hell, this time it’s just the gainer who licks it all off or eats it.
So what does the gainer gain from all of this? A person who will feed them to their heart’s content and do almost everything for them. Plus it’s awesome to feel sexy no matter how much you weigh, especially in a time where more people are becoming obese and you can find someone who wants to be with you because of your eating habits. Often the goal of a gainer and feeder is to get the gainer to the point of being immobile. Then they’re going to have to rely on the feeder to do all of the housework, cooking, working, and even bathing.
Of course there’s the whole issue of being unhealthy and putting a lot of pressure on the body. Make sure you know what you’re in for when you practice feederism, and that it is a careful and consensual choice. Figure out your limits for this fetish beforehand, so you and your partner can approach it in a way that keeps you safe, healthy, and sexy.